A Nouriam Guide

Unwoven

A Gentle Companion for Life After Divorce

The threads of your life have come apart. This book is a hand to hold while you learn to weave again — with wisdom, with compassion, and with hope for what comes next.

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50% of marriages end in divorce — you're not alone
2-3 years average time to emotionally recover from divorce
85% report personal growth after working through divorce mindfully

Divorce is not just an ending

When a marriage ends, the loss extends far beyond the relationship. You lose your sense of identity, your imagined future, the daily rhythms that shaped your life. You may feel like a stranger in your own skin.

Society expects you to "move on" quickly. To be strong. To have it figured out. But divorce is one of the most profound transitions a person can experience — and it deserves real support.

This guide is that support. Not advice from people who haven't been there. Not toxic positivity or bitter rants. Just honest, evidence-based companionship for the hardest journey you didn't choose.

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What is Unwoven?

Unwoven is a 9-chapter guide that walks beside you through every stage of divorce — from the initial shock to rebuilding a life that's fully yours.

Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, and the wisdom of those who've walked this road, it offers practical tools and emotional validation for the questions no one prepares you for:

  • How do I grieve someone who's still alive?
  • Who am I outside of "we"?
  • How do I handle the anger, guilt, and fear?
  • How do I protect my kids while falling apart?
  • Will I ever feel normal again?

You will. This book shows you how.

What's Inside

Nine chapters of compassionate, evidence-based guidance for every stage of the journey.

01

The Breaking Point

When love becomes loss. Understanding shock, navigating the first days, and allowing yourself to be where you are.

02

Who Am I Now?

Reclaiming identity after "we." The archaeology of self, practical autonomy, and building a life that reflects you.

03

All the Messy Feelings

Anger, guilt, fear, and relief — sometimes all at once. How to make space for the emotional chaos without drowning.

04

Grieving Someone Alive

The cruelest paradox of divorce. Processing loss when the person is still there, still texting, still in your life.

05

The Legal Side

Without losing your mind. Protecting your mental health while navigating documents, decisions, and deadlines.

06

What About the Kids?

Co-parenting, guilt, and showing up. What your children need, how to give it, and releasing the rest.

07

Rebuilding Daily Life

And nights. Reconstructing routines, finding structure, and learning to live in a body that now moves alone.

08

Dating & Loneliness

Rediscovering touch. Navigating the ache of being alone, the fear of the future, and the possibility of connection.

09

A Future That's Yours

Not moving on — moving forward. The transformation of healing and the life waiting to be woven.

The Complete Package

9-Chapter Ebook

Beautifully designed PDF guide with evidence-based support for every stage of divorce recovery.

7 Worksheets

Printable exercises for processing emotions, rebuilding identity, and tracking your healing journey.

4 Audio Exercises

Guided meditations and grounding practices for the hardest moments — when the waves hit.

Crisis Resources

International support contacts for moments when you need more than a book can offer.

Guided Audio Exercises

Four audio companions for divorce's most overwhelming moments. Listen when the waves hit.

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When Everything Unravels

For acute crisis moments. Grounding through the panic when reality hits.

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Releasing the Anger

A safe container for rage. Moving through anger without being consumed by it.

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The Empty House

For the loneliest evenings. Finding presence in the silence.

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Weaving Forward

For moments of hope. Connecting with the future that's waiting for you.

From readers who've been there

★★★★★

"I've read a dozen divorce books. This is the only one that felt like it was written by someone who actually understood. The chapter on grieving someone still alive — I cried and felt seen for the first time."

Sarah M. Divorced after 12 years
★★★★★

"The co-parenting chapter saved me from so much guilt. I finally understood that my kids don't need me to be perfect — they need me to be present. And the audio exercises are incredible for the worst moments."

Michael R. Father of two, 8 months post-divorce
★★★★★

"I was drowning in anger and didn't know what to do with it. This book gave me permission to feel it AND showed me how to let it go without destroying myself or my relationships. Life-changing."

Jennifer T. Rebuilding after an unexpected divorce

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Everything you need to navigate divorce with wisdom and grace.

Complete 9-chapter ebook (PDF)
7 printable worksheets
4 guided audio exercises
International crisis resources
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About Nouriam

Nouriam creates compassionate mental health resources for life's most challenging transitions. From the tender weeks of new motherhood to the profound journey of grief to the unraveling of divorce — we believe everyone deserves access to thoughtful, research-backed support.

Our guides are written with warmth and grounded in science. We don't offer quick fixes or hollow promises. We offer companionship for the journey.

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If You Need Immediate Support

Divorce can sometimes feel unbearable. If you're having thoughts of harming yourself, please reach out. Help is available.

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